Be the Lightning in Me That Strikes Relentless

Spanking meme stolen from my sweet darling, LSAM. ❤

  1. Would you rather be spanked outside in a cold woodshed or inside by a cozy fire?
    Cold woodshed. I love the contrasting sensations of cool air and hot skin.
  2. Would you rather be spanked in public or private? 
    In private… I tend to get gushy and weepy.
  3. Would you rather fantasize about spanking or actually be spanked?
    I fantasize about it a lot. But I’d rather just have it happen.
  4. Would you rather be spanked for humiliation or for your spanker’s pleasure?
    Well sometimes it becomes humiliating, especially when I’m playing at being innocent and sweet, and I fall into the actual feeling of that “character.” But that pleases my spanker–spanking is usually a mutually pleasurable experience.
  5. Would you rather be spanked by hand or hairbrush? 
    Hand. Definitely. Handbrush is nice too though.
  6. Would you rather be spanked by belt or cane? 
    Belt, ooooh Sir’s belt, please. The cane has its own… pleasures but is usually reserved for bad girl spankings.
  7. Would you rather be spanked by ping pong paddle or riding crop?
    Erm. Crop. Yes.
  8. Would you rather be restrained or unrestrained during a spanking? 
    Sometimes I like to be over his knee and  just barely stroke his legs with my fingertips, or claw at the floor, or kick at it. But being restrained is… delicious.
  9. Would you rather be spanked until you cried or until you are aroused?
    The thought alone is enough to make me sopping wet. I love being spanked till I cry though.
  10. Would you rather have just a red bottom or welts/bruises?
    Bruises… I love bruises.
  11. Would you rather be spanked for the naughty things you have done or just because you enjoy the experience?
    Because I enjoy it. Bad girl spankings bring me into a very forlorn state of mind and I need a lot of aftercare.
  12. Would you rather be spanked with panties up or panties down?
    Panties down, ass up.
  13. Would you rather be spanked somewhat clothed or entirely naked?
    Hike the skirt/dress up and put me over your knee, please.
  14. Would you rather be spanked OTK or bent over a table/chair?
    OTK forevvvvver. It instantly puts me down into sub space.
  15. Would you rather your spanker have physical contact with you? 
    Yes… but then again… I tend to have a touching fetish. And this might sound silly to say, but I would rub my body against someone and be fucking satisfied. I need need NEED to be touched.
  16. Would you prefer to be spanked in the woods with a tree branch, bent over the hood of a car, or in a school with a ruler bent over the desk of your teacher/principal?
    School/ruler. I have a bit of a professor/student thing
  17. Would you rather be a brat to your spanker to deserve a spanking or simply ask your spanker for a spanking because you know you needed it? 
    Well… I’d rather ask. But sometimes I have a bit of a problem being verbal. I want to be verbal. I like being verbal. He likes it. I like pleasing him too. But… it’s so hard sometimes. UNF. Bratty, rough spankings are hot though.
  18. Have you received a spanking in the last week? 
    Hmmm… nope.
  19. Would you rather be spanked for the physical pleasure or the emotional release?
    Both. Absolutely both.
  20. Would you rather tell your best friends that you enjoy to be spanked or keep it a secret?
    Heh. It’s my dirty, little secret. People joke about it at work but I keep my mouth the hell shut.
  21. Would you rather spanking be a lifestyle choice or just something you dabble in?
    Lifestyle choice. I need it.
  22. Would you rather your lover be a vanilla or a spankoholic too? 
    …The only thing I do that’s vanilla is ice cream.
  23. Would you rather be spanked by a stranger or by someone who knew you well? 
    Someone I trust inherently.
  24. Would you rather be spanked by a despotic, mean person or by a compassionate, benevolent person?
    A sadist who cares for me.
  25. Would you rather be talked to while you are spanked or no talking at all?
    Yes, talk to me. Tell me dirty, awful things. What a slut I am. Tell me you love it when I protest. Tell me you can feel my pussy juices sliding down your knees. Make me talk. Make me beg. Make me count. Make me thank you. Holy hell, make me thank you.
  26. Would you rather get one swat at a time with pauses to let the sting set in or a continuous tanning to build up the fire?
    I like to start out slow and move up to a steady, heavy rhythm.
  27. Would you rather have a safe word or be pushed beyond your preconceived limits? 
    I don’t enjoy safe words. I know, bad girl. But I want to be pushed. I haven’t found the limit yet.
  28. Would you rather your spanker know your spanking history or is ignorance bliss? 
    Uhm… discovery is always the best?
  29. Would you rather be spanked by multiple people at one time or just by one person at a time? 
    One person, specifically.
  30. Would you rather be spanked once a day or once every few months? 
    What’s the happy medium there? Once a week, maybe?
  31. Would you rather your spanker be deeply in tune or be totally unaffected to your experiences as a spankee?
    Should this even be a question? I want my spanker to know me. To feel and experience with me.
  32. Would you rather a closer physical relationship or a closer emotional relationship with your spanker? 
    …uh… huh. Well. Both.
  33. Would you rather your spanker ice your bottom down after a spanking or send you to the corner to display his/her accomplishment? 
    Lotion my bottom down, actually. Oh, the lotion >.>
  34. Would you rather your spanker be the person you wish to live the rest of your life with (i.e. marriage) or the person you can call on when your tushy tickles?
    Either or… as long as the trust was there.
  35. Would you rather spanking be part of love making or not a part of love making? 
    Love making… sex… fucking… or even without it, yes.
  36. Would you rather your spanker have total control over you when you are being spanked or do you still want to have some control while you are being spanked? 
    Control me. Strip me of my control. Own me. Dominate me.
  37. Would you rather be humiliated or respected during a spanking? 
    Respected as a human being. Humiliated like the slut I am.
  38. Would you rather spanking become part of a bigger BDSM alternative lifestyle or spanking just be spanking for spanking sake? 
    Bigger alternative lifestyle. I like it as domestic discipline in the D/s dynamic we share. I also like it as impact play for S/m.
  39. Would you rather be filmed during a spanking to share your exhibitionist naughtiness or are you too modest to show your bum to the world?
    Oh, I don’t know if filming would be a good idea. I get loud and whiny.
  40. Would you rather your spanking be gentle and gradual or painful and abrupt? 
    gradual and painful should be the option.
  41. Would you rather be defiant or fearful going into a spanking?
    Defiant is ever so fun.
  42. Would you rather be spanked exclusively in your own bedroom or anywhere else other than your own bedroom? 
    Anywhere. Although the idea that “we need to go to the bedroom, ‘cos you’re being naughty” is kind of hot.
  43. Would you rather be spanked exclusively on your bottom or would other places be interesting too? 
    I also like having my tits smacked/spanked. And as sharp and immediate as the pain is… I like it when I have my pussy spanked too. Or my thighs.
  44. Would you rather that spanking be a surprise or something that you have to look forward to? 
    Either. I like spanking no matter what.
  45. Would you rather that spanking be a part of role playing kinkiness or a response to events that have happened in reality? 
    UGH. What a choice. I like to role play the shy and sweet and innocent girl or be a bratty “little”. But… I also like just being me and him and getting a spanking.
  46. Would you rather be spanked by a male or female? 
    Male. Period.
  47. Would you rather be cuddled or scolded after a spanking? 
    Held. Pet. Stroked. Caressed. Pampered. Fingered. Fucked. Facefucked. Whispered to. Talked dirty to. Cleaned up (undoubtedly I will have made a mess).

7 responses to “Be the Lightning in Me That Strikes Relentless

  1. Pingback: Spank Me(me)! « mysexlifewithlola

  2. Fatal, love, these words ring so fucking true… “Yes, talk to me. Tell me dirty, awful things. What a slut I am. Tell me you love it when I protest. Tell me you can feel my pussy juices sliding down your knees. Make me talk. Make me beg. Make me count. Make me thank you. Holy hell, make me thank you.”

    Loved it!! *licks and smacks* Mwah!!

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