TMI Tuesday: Life Or Something Like It

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1. We learn from our mistakes. What sex or sexual mistakes have you made and learned from, What was the lesson learned?

I am incapable of maintaining a long term sexual relationship without developing feelings for my partner… and that’s okay, and natural, and I’m not crazy.
Sex with many strangers does not fill the void, but there’s still no need to be ashamed of one’s sexual past.

2. What risk (sexual or not) would you take if you knew you would not fail?

Abandon everything and go to work for the peace corp or go backpacking through Europe for a year, or possibly two.

3. At what time in your life have you felt most passionate and alive?

Every moment that my adrenaline has ever raced, every new place I’ve ever been, every time I realize I am more today than I was yesterday.

4. What one piece of advice about sex would you offer the virgin you?

Quantity doesn’t equal quality. You will consider simple intimacies largely overrated for years–don’t. Once you foray into BDSM you’ll never want to leave, but don’t waste your time on asshole, inexperienced D-types. Also, you’re not a Top with men, you just aren’t–you act like maybe you are for awhile, because frankly you’re afraid to give up control, that experience is invaluable, but don’t take so damn long to realize it. Don’t wait so long to well and truly open yourself up to him sexually, you’re just wasting time.

5. What are you avoiding?

Right now? Sleep.

6. By what age should you know what you want to do with your life?

“Knowing what you want to do” is something fluid. I wanted to be a Doctor for a long time. Then I realized what my true calling was. My mind is changing all the time about the path I will take to get there. Instead of trying to plan your entire life out as it lays before you… you should just try to live it.

Bonus: Do you think you’ve experienced true intimacy in a relationship?

What is intimacy? It is such an all encompassing word. It involves your sex life, your emotions, and all the quiet moments alone. It is so much, so vast. Have I ever experienced “true” intimacy? On varying levels with various people throughout my life, and not always in a romantic or sexual manner.

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TMI Tuesday: Fill My ______

This week’s TMI Tuesday was adapted from Friday Fill-ins.

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Fill in the blanks below with whatever comes to mind first or is sexy or crazy. Have fun!

1. For me, it was _____ .

You.

2. _____ at my local supermarket.

Fuck me

3. Behind the tree _____ .

he strips my panties down my thighs and plunges his cock inside of me. His hand is over my mouth, but I’m sure it does nothing to muffle my moans. His eyes are on me and behind me. He watches the guests, flitting ever nearer to our hiding place. I can feel his heart race, and it matches the taste of mine in my throat.

4. _____ is something I always wanted to do.

Travel far and wide. See Spain and the South of France… build an igloo in Scandinavia. See the Northern lights and shade my eyes from the sun in the middle of the night. Taste fresh wine-quality grapes in Napoli and sample the chocolate in Belgium. Run through the greenest fields in Ireland and stand next to the Great Pyramids at Giza.

5. When it was over, _____ .

it felt as though it had just began.

6. Tonight I’m looking forward to _____ .

Touching my pussy for the first time in a week.

Bonus: What is it? Explain how you would use it.

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Really don’t know what it is. Looks sexual. Or like a microscope of some kind. I’m really horny. Inexplicably, insanely, unbelievably horny right now… and it’s vaguely phallic shaped. So I’d fuck it. I hope no one is surprised by this.

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TMI Tuesday: Vacation Time

In many areas around the world, vacation season is approaching. This week’s TMI Tuesday asks you to tell us about your vacation style. Thank you to Virtual Sin for the questions.

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1) What mode of transportation do you prefer for vacation: a) car, b) bus, c) train, d) cruise ship, e) airplane, f) other?

Car for regional trips and Airplane for everything else. Some day I might take a cruise, but I am deathly afraid of drowning. I enjoy trains, but they’re not my preferred method of transport unless it’s a subway. I really hate buses.

2) What baggage strategy do you use when flying: a) carry-on only, b) gate check excess bags, c) check baggage, d) ship bags ahead, e) other?

I always try to take only a carry-on, but if the trip is longer than 3 or 4 days I usually end up packing one bag and having a carry-on as well.

3) What is your accommodation strategy: a) luxury hotel, b) bed and breakfast c) cheap hotel/motel, d) stay with family/friends, e) camping or RV, e) other?

I very rarely stay with family or friends, with a few notable exceptions. I do like a little privacy and I actually enjoy staying in hotels! With that being said I have stayed in luxurious hotels (including one of the Penthouse suites at the famous Waldorf Astoria in NY), I have done cheap motels where I was afraid to use the linens, I have lived out of my suitcase in hostels, I have done beach side condos and cozy cottages. My absolute favorite place to stay is a bed and breakfast though, especially in a countryside or on a beach; log cabins come in close second.

4) What world-famous places have you visited on vacation? These can be commercial tourist attractions (Disney World), museums (The Louvre), historic places (Gettysburg), natural wonders (Yellowstone, Yosemite), or anything else?

Oh boy. Well. A short and more than likely incomplete list:
Space Needle, Disney World, Universal Studios, Madame Tussauds Wax Museum (NY, London, Vegas), Statue of Liberty, St. Patrick’s Cathedral,  Empire State building, MoMa, Metropolitan Museum of Art, Guggenheim, United Nations (NY and Vienna location), Capitol Hill, White House (outside, not in), Washington Monument, Lincoln Memorial, Sydney Opera House, London Eye, London Bridge, Big Ben, Buckingham Palace (outside), Westminster Abbey, British Museum, Hofburg Imperial Palace, Schönbrunn Palace and gardens, Stephansdom Cathedral, Vienna Opera House, Austrian Parliament, Karlsplatz, Mauthausen-Gusen concentration camp, Charles Bridge in Prague, Prague Castle, Astronomical clock, Old Town Square in Prague, Danube Promenade, Buda Castle, Hungarian Parliament, Hungarian Opera house, Fisherman’s Bastion, St. Stephen’s Basilica—-I’m going to stop here. This list is far too long already. Geeze. Needless to say, I’m decently traveled.

5) Where do you really, really want to go someday?

Scandinavia.

6) What you would you like to go back to see again?

I’d like to spend a year in Vienna. I didn’t spend nearly enough time in that beautiful, beautiful city.

Bonus: Have you ever had sex with someone you just met while on vacation? Tell us about it.

I met a lovely, lovely couple in Praha (Prague) at the Karlovy Lazne, the second night I was there. We went to a bar in new town after finding the Lazne a bit overwhelming, and then we went back to their place. Very fun people. Never saw or heard from them again.

Bonus, Bonus: While vacationing, have you ever had sex in a moving car, bus, train, or airplane?

I have given a hand job on a bus at the border cross heading into Slovakia from the Czech Republic.

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